Saturday, February 9, 2013

Proverbs 31:20 - "she opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy"



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Proverbs 31:20 - "she opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy"


Ti's the season for Giving...and the perfect time to meditate over the scripture about charity.

I have always loved to give back to the community.  Although I have never worked in a soup kitchen.  I have had several jobs in nursing homes and been involved with church or community organizations that made sure to take care of the poor and needy on a regular basis.  My parents also raised us with a sense of duty and community and still to this day my father does Meals on Wheels.  One Christmas in particular my 10 year old son was quite disappointed that we were going to spend the morning of Christmas Eve delivering meals to the elderly.  He reluctantly came along but as we left each house his mood brightened.

The shut in's were so happy to see us, to shaky our hands and to see my small children s smiling faces.  They loved to touch their soft smiling cheeks and chubby hands.

Please remember to allow yourself and your loved ones the pleasure and honor of serving others.  You get so much more back in return.  It is SOO much better to give than receive.  My son has grown into a mature, generous, kind, and loving young man who understands that giving is an honor and it feels really good!


Side Note:  I had meant to publish this post at the beginning of Dec...goes to show you that 2012 was a crazy year for me.  I did find time to give.  Free career counseling, resume reviews, or health coaching for individuals with no insurance.  I always enjoy this time with the individual I am able to help because they are so grateful and I feel like I have contributed something positive to society.  You may not be one for working in a soup kitchen but maybe you can offer your services to the community in other ways.  I can promise that you will never regret this time you give because you get it all back 10 fold!  

I encourage you continue your study with the Middletown Church series on the Proverbs 31 woman.


Kisses and Hugs, 
      Jenny




Proverbs 31:20

She stretcheth out her hand to the poor;
yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.




Compare an earlier verse in the same Proverb:  "Plead the cause of the poor and needy" (verse 9).

Verse 20 is an example of parallelism that is found so often in Hebrew poetry. In these two phrases parallel ideas are set forth, with the second phrase saying basically the same thing as the first phrase, with only minor variations.  Both phrases emphasize the fact that the virtuous woman has compassion toward the poor and needy and she shows her compassion with concrete deeds of mercy.  She loves the poor, not in word or in tongue only, but also in deed and in truth (1 John 3:16-18).   

The word "poor" means "afflicted, humble."   It is used of those who are physically and materially poor as in Proverbs 31:20, and it is also used of believers who recognize their spiritual poverty and bankruptcy ("I am poor and needy"--see Psalm 40:17; 70:5; 109:22; 34:6).  No one can make progress in his spiritual life until he realizes how desperately needy he really is, and recognizes that only the Lord can supply that which is needed.   

God's people are to have a heart of compassion for those who are physically and materially poor and needy.  In the law, God told the Israelites that the gleanings from their vineyards and fields should be left for the poor of the land (Lev. 19:10; 23:22). The godly woman of Proverbs 31 faithfully obeyed the following command: "For the poor shall never cease out of the land: therefore I command thee, saying, Thou shalt open thine hand wide unto thy brother, to thy poor, and to thy needy, in thy land." (Deut. 15:11).  Early in Proverbs 31, believers are encouraged to plead the cause of the poor (verse 9).   In Proverbs 14:21 a benediction is pronounced upon those who show compassion to the poor and help them: "He that despiseth his neighbour sinneth: but he that hath mercy on the poor, happy is he." 


To read the rest go to....

http://www.middletownbiblechurch.org/homefam/prov31.htm









Thursday, December 6, 2012

GIVE-A-WAY FUN!!! Roses and Tea Cups

Roses and Tea Cups is having a give away!!!


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I love this feminine apron....


Wednesday, October 24, 2012

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Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Home Economics For Woman - 1950 and Today

1950 housewife



I LOVE this.....may sound dated...but its a good reminder of what we can be doing with our time when we are home.



Home Economics For Women In The 1950's

July 31st 2007 00:40

From a 1950's high school home economics textbook, teaching girls how to prepare for married life.

1. Have dinner ready: Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal on time.
2. Prepare yourself: Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking.
He has just been with a lot of work- weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift.
3. Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school books, toys, paper, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables.  Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift, too.

4. Prepare the children: Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces if they are small, comb their hair, and if necessary, change their clothes.
They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.

5. Minimize the noise: At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of washer, dryer, dishwasher or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.
Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.

6. Things to avoid: Don't greet him with problems or complaints. Don't complain if he's late for dinner.
Count this as minor compared with what he might have gone through that day.

7. Make him comfortable: Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes.
Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax and unwind.

8. Listen to him: You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.

9. Make the evening his: Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment; instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure, his need to be home and relax.

10. The goal: Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can relax.

Thursday, August 2, 2012

I am an Apron Wearin', husband RESPECTIN'...21st Century Christian Wife





1 Corinthians 7:2 - But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 

Regarding the Chickfila happenings here in Chicago.......

I am proud to be an apron wearin', husband Respectin' Christian Wife in the 21st Century!

.....I am not a bigot because I believe in the Christian value of marriage as the sacred bond between a man and a woman that signifies the holy union between Jesus and His church. I don't care what other's do in the privacy of their own home....call it a civil union with the same rights as marriage - leave it to the law makers....but don't call me hateful because I want marriage to remain sacred.

I have the right to peaceably support a cause I happen to believe in. No one is saying he or she hates anyone. 

You can do the same if you like to support a cause you believe in and I promise I won't judge you or call you a bigot, racist or any other horrible name that I have been called over the past 24 hours.

That being said.....I AM SO GLAD TO BE BACK TO BLOGGING!  

It has been a long hard road through the recovery process since Aug 18th of last year when I was hit by a car while riding my bike.  So many things changed.  I had to leave my 30 hour a week job to recover at home and have not been back to work outside the home since.  I have mixed feelings about this.  We do need me to be making more money, so I am interviewing when I get the opportunity.  

I am not sure what God's will is for me at this moment and I am committed to just be 
happy and grateful in this moment. 


Grateful Daughter of an Almighty God!


Jenny



Me a few weeks before the accident a year ago...at work.
20 pounds lighter
Me now...handmade house dress and apron...Learning to be happy with what ever God puts in my path.